The Turkish Lover (1999) by Esmeralda Santiago

Abstract

This article analyzes Esmeralda Santiago’s memoir The Turkish Lover, a sequel to her earlier works Almost a Woman and When I was Puerto Rican. The paper explores Santiago’s seven-year relationship with her Turkish lover, Ulvi Doğan, and how this relationship shapes her sense of self and identity. The author contends that Santiago’s memoir chronicles her struggle for independence and self-respect while critiquing the domineering and protective nature of their relationship. This study examines the cultural dynamics at play, highlighting Santiago’s deferral of her Puerto-Rican identity in favor of Doğan’s expectations. The article demonstrates how Santiago’s experiences with Doğan ultimately lead her to recognize her own abilities and pursue an independent path. However, the memoir falls short in providing deep insight into Santiago’s true feelings and emotions, leaving readers unconvinced about the reasons behind her prolonged relationship with Doğan.

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